Prelude
Introduction
My dear Maddie:
Chapter 1 Be ready for Change and Adventure
Opportunity Knocks
My First Meeting with Coach K
Chapter 2 Creating “Choice Not Chance”
We Are All a Product of the Choices We Make
Chapter 3 The Underdog, Fighter Mentality
A Navy Brat Grows Up
Wherever They Live, Kids Need to be Motivated
Role Models Help Me Develop My Skills
Nurturing Interest and a Desire to Improve
Graduation Approaches
Chapter 4 Nobody Likes Whiners
Arriving at Northwester and Fighting for Playing Time
A Coaching Change
My First (Bittersweet) Taste of the NCAA Tournament
Chapter 5 Money Alone Won't Make You Happy
What Am I Going to Do With My Life?
Following a Passion --My Return to Basketball
Chapter 6 Never Be Afraid to Try Something and Make a Mistake
Making a Commitment and Sticking With It
Things Begin to Make Sense
A Nearly Fatal Mistake
Why the Scoreboard is Irrelevant – Play the Game to Attack and Compete
Learning from Failure
Seek Out the Wisdom of Others
Chapter 7 Not all of your Players (Or Employees) Will Get Along With Each Other
The Other Side of Success
Learning Balance, Restoring Energy
Expectations for the Future
Chapter 8 Life is More Than the Game
Away from the Court, My Priorities Change
Team in Transition
New Developments on the Court and in My Life
Chapter 9 Set High Team Goals While Motivating on and Individual Level – No Two Players (Just Like No Two Players) are Exactly Alike
Arriving at Michigan State
Lessons from Tom Izzo and Lonny Rosen
Motivating a New Team
Managing Conflict
Chapter 10 Everybody has to be challenged to see how good they can become
Challenges and Progress at Michigan State
Always Measure Your Accomplishments
Chapter 11 Step back and reassess your priorities
How Can We Improve? What Can We Do Better?
Refusing to Give Up – No Matter the Opponent
Chapter 12 A Message from Coach Smith and Coach Wooden
Winning isn't always about who has the best or most talented players
Coming Close Creates Added Motivation
Chapter 13 Coach K Teaches “Do what you came here to do.”
Moving On
Meeting another challenge
Getting to Work at Duke
Coach K Gives Me the Message I Need When I Need It
My First Big Win at Duke
Transition at Work and at Home
Chapter 14 You have to seek out the changes -- and see how you need to react to them -- to make the team (and your world) better
Chapter 15 Recruiting is a true test of will, discipline, character and evaluation ability
Getting the Right Group of Players
Chapter 16 “Competitive Cauldron”
Acknowledgements
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