Acknowledgments xi
About the Author xiii
Introduction 1
Chapter 1 Legacy of a Lifetime 5
Legacy Lesson #1: The Estate Planning Effect 9
Legacy Lesson #2: Passing the Torch without Getting Burned 10
Legacy Lesson #3: The Holistic Approach 11
Legacy Lesson #4: Dropping the Gauntlet 12
Chapter 2 Stripping and Being Stripped 13
Legacy Lesson #5: The Elective Share and Prenuptial Agreement 27
Legacy Lesson #6: Providing Equitably Both for a Second Spouse and Children from a Prior Marriage 28
Legacy Lesson #7: Disinheriting a Family Member 30
Chapter 3 The Astor Disaster: A Legacy of Influence and Undue Influence 33
Legacy Lesson #8: Monitor the Health and the Wealth of a Loved One Who Is Ill and Vulnerable 79
Legacy Lesson #9: Anatomy of a Contested Estate 88
Legacy Lesson #10: Influence or Undue Influence? 91
Legacy Lesson #11: By Gift or by Theft? 94
Legacy Lesson #12: Time in a Bottle—Good Days and Bad Days 97
Legacy Lesson #13: Protecting against Fraud 99
Chapter 4 The Benevolent Queen of Mean 105
Legacy Lesson #14: Protect the Pooch 119
Legacy Lesson #15: The Grim Reaper's Silver Lining 124
Legacy Lesson #16: A Generation Skipped 127
Legacy Lesson #17: Buried, But Not Resting Peacefully 129
Legacy Lesson #18: The Mission Statement: A Legacy Builder or Buster 134
Chapter 5 A Sweet and Sour Legacy 139
Legacy Lesson #19: A Stitch in Time Saves Nine 148
Legacy Lesson #20: Respecting the Formalities of a Will Signing 149
Legacy Lesson #21: Clarity versus Ambiguity 150
Legacy Lesson #22: Videotaping a Will Signing 151
Chapter 6 Is This It? 153
Legacy Lesson #23: Raising Helen 168
Legacy Lesson #24: If You Want Privacy, Use a Revocable Trust 170
Legacy Lesson #25: The Business of the Business 171
Chapter 7 Lessons from the Dead 183
Legacy Lesson #26: A Legacy in the Hands of Fiduciaries 200
Legacy Lesson #27: Heirlooms Can Define a Legacy 202
Chapter 8 At the End of the Day 205
Appendix A Fact Sheet for Last Will and Testament 209
Appendix B Probate Litigation Fact Sheet 221
Bibliography 229
Index 251