Human Resources Leadership

Dealing with the Tough Stuff How to Achieve Results from Critical Conversations

By Hill
Jossey-Bass April 2012

Specifications

ISBN-13
9781118232569
Publisher
Jossey-Bass
Publication
April 2012
Format
Paperback , 216 pages
Jurisdiction
International ? Countri(es) for reference only

Details

Discover how to achieve positive results from important conversations with staff

Handling tricky behaviour and dealing with difficult discussions in the workplace requires the right balance of finesse, people skills, and communication techniques—a challenging feat, to say the least. Packed with practical and pragmatic suggestions and methods for dealing with the tough stuff at work, this unique and helpful book features simple diagnostics, models, and processes that you can put to use immediately.

The author team shares their years of research and experience so that you can benefit from their case studies and examples, all of which are aimed at increasing the confidence of anyone working in a management or leadership role. You'll discover how the science of human behaviour—both verbal and nonverbal—plays an enormous role when handling conflict situations and you'll learn how to apply a variety of tools, tips, and strategies when leading critical conversations with empathy and assertiveness.

  • Explains why avoiding dealing with the tough stuff at work can be so costly for managers, staff, and, ultimately, the business
  • Features methods and strategies that have been backed by contemporary theory and tested and trialed with thousands of participants
  • Zeroes in on ways to uncover the root cause of difficult behavior
  • Shares advice for finding the best way to be assertive in any situation
  • Reveals techniques for depersonalising conflict and avoiding language that causes conflict

Dealing with the Tough Stuff aims to make your life easier in the workplace so that you can have more productive discussions...and substantially less conflict.

Table of Contents

Preface v

About the authors ix

Acknowledgements xi

Introduction xiii

1 What's your tough stuff? Getting clear on what's tough for you 1

2 Dealing with the tough stuff — foundational skills 9

3 Dealing with the fluff stuff — get more direct in your language and achieve clarity 33

4 Dealing with the unsaid stuff — ensuring maximum leverage from your non-verbal communication 55

5 Dealing with the gruff stuff — addressing anger and managing high emotions 67

6 Dealing with the huff stuff — dealing with resistant, defensive and stubborn behaviour 83

7 Dealing with the bluff stuff — handling emotional manipulation in the workplace 107

8 Dealing with the rough stuff — the big three: restructure, redundancy and dismissal 127

9 Dealing with the off-the-cuff stuff — building skills to handle immediate crisis 149

10 Dealing with enough stuff — prioritising things that matter 165

Conclusion 181

Index 189

About the Author

Behavioural scientist Darren Hill and psychologists Alison Hill and Dr Sean Richardson are directors of the behavioural strategy company Pragmatic Thinking. They work with top companies in Australia and North America to equip and support managers and leaders to work more confidently with people.

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